P.H.D

I saw a friend post on her FB wall about people and perasaan hasad dengki. So, the post below is basically my two cents..

Perasaan Hasad Dengki. PHD. Do you have one?


PHD is basically a feeling of jealousy and envy with a tint of hatred in oneself. It's different than just jealousy or envy though, as this is a bit extreme to a certain point. It's a feeling of jealousy that you cannot control. Yes, let me tell you something, humans do have the control button to control their own jealousy. Why do I say a bit extreme? Because PHD can drive people to do things which are unpleasant, and damaging i.e sabotaging friends' relationship or friendship, spreading nasty and malicious rumours and gossips that can ruin a lot of things (friendship, relationship, marriage, business, society) and many other things that are just plain heartbreaking.

Why do people have PHD? I don't think it's about the other person that they are jealous off, it is mainly they have issues that cannot be resolve within themselves. Those that have PHD may be feeling pain, anger, sadness, rage, grief, HUMILIATION, resentment, worry, SELF-PITY, BLAME and fear. Bukan dekat orang lain tapi diri sendiri. Nampak tak semua negative connotations ni?

So, when you think back, you are actually bringing those negative traits to your own self, bukan orang lain. Tak rasa malu ke kawan-kawan? Jealousy once in a while is fine, it can be for a good cause as sometimes it may push you to work harder in reaching your goals? But a PHD? That's like having issues with your own self. Nanti commit suicide baru tahu. Agree tak?

How to overcome your PHD? Take a breather dude. Think. Eat more, love more and pray more. Yes, go to Italy, India and Bali. So you won't have to kacau orang. Life is short. Seriously it is. Do your own stuff. If you are not satisfied with your life, do something about it. Don't rant or complain. That is like being ungrateful to what God has given you. He the Almighty gave you life. LIVE IT. Make full of it. To the fullest. Friends, let's be happy ok? Let's not take the people that you love for granted. So erase those PHD. It's not worth it. Ain't worth your life at all. Mintak jauh ok?